It's time to get out of your own way!
I know something about you, even though we probably haven't met yet.
I know that you have fears and dreams, which means you also have confidence issues.
But so do I.
I have insecurities, fears and a past that isn't all roses. Sometimes I question if I'm qualified enough or smart enough or pretty enough, or if I can really make my dreams happen.
That used to be hard for me to say.
But now it's not. Because in that way we're all the same, whether we're willing to admit it or not.
The difference between me and a lot of other people is that I've found a way to keep those things from killing my ambition and sabotaging my career.
I've learned how to feel more confident, and live confidently even when I don't. And I've used those lessons to succeed in my career for the last 20 years across different industries, roles and responsibilities.
Now I help others do the same, and I want to help you too.
You have too much talent and ambition to let your confidence issues stop you from getting what you want. Let's make sure they don't!
P.S. I believe credentials matter when you're taking advice, so here's a few...
Vanderbilt University graduate, 2nd overall pick in the WNBA Draft, Vanderbilt Basketball all-time leading scorer, Tennessee Sports Hall of Fame Inductee, 6-Year WNBA Veteran, TEDx Talk, Top Recruiter at Virginia Tech Basketball, Stryker Medical Presidents Club, South Central Sales Rep of the Year, Stryker Medical John W. Brown Award, GALLUP Strengths Academy Certified
Visible Confidence is...
Visible Confidence is a personal and professional development program for women who want to advance in their careers, earn what they're worth and be more confident in their overall lives.
Based on the 7 Pillars of Confidence, this is an all-encompassing approach to building and refining the skill of confidence.
The 7 Pillars of Confidence
- Relationship with fear – How do you view fear and what do you do with it?
- Perception of appearance – What do you think and feel about how you look and how does that impact your interactions with the world around you?
- Level of self-reliance – How much of your confidence is based on factors like resume, appearance, title or relationship status instead of who you are as a person?
- Applied work ethic – If your success depended solely on how hard you work and the initiative you take, would you bet on yourself?
- Discernment in relationships – Where is respect on your list of priorities and how do the people you surround yourself with affect your confidence?
- Execution of standards – What are your standards and non-negotiables in business, relationships and personal growth, and do you enforce them?
- Resolution of history – How are your past experiences affecting your present view of the world, other people and yourself?
It all started with a Facebook post...
One day I posted on Facebook about how I used to be extremely shy.
I'm sure you can see why... Haha. My struggle years lasted a long time! (Click here for the slightly embarrassing details if you're interested)
After that post, I got a message from a young woman who said she was shy too, and wanted to know how I found my confidence.
How I found my confidence... I hadn't sat down and thought about it.
But I told her I would, and I'd get back to her.
On that flight I ended up writing her a 2-page summary of seven things I did to get over my shyness and be more confident.
We got on the phone, went through it, and she said she would try some of my advice.
A week later she called, so excited to tell me that the simple to-do's I'd given her were making a big difference!
From there I realized I could help more people if I wrote a book. So at the beginning of 2015, I did.
More great reviews and feedback from people, saying the practical tips really helped their confidence.
So I expanded the content again, this time applying all of my corporate experience to provide even more professional advice and strategies. And that's how we got this current course:
Visible Confidence: How to get out of your own way and win
I didn't intended for this to be anything more than helping a Facebook friend. But if I can continue to help people get over their shyness and start living more confidently, I'm all in!
So join us! Your future, more confident self will thank you!
New year, new you?
"JUST BE WHO YOU ARE AND LOVE YOURSELF," IS DUMB ADVICE.
If it was that simple, we'd never feel scared and insecure, thinking things like...
I want to do great things but I’m not sure if I’m good enough to make great happen.
Why do I feel like such a fake?
I wish I could believe what other people say about me.
Can I trust myself enough to follow my heart?
What if I fail?
How do I turn off these voices in my head telling me I can’t do it?
What if no one likes the real me?
I just don’t feel pretty…
If you’ve ever felt that way, I have good news for you.
You're not alone.
But if you've been trying to change those feelings for a while and they still won't go away, maybe you just need a little help...
That's why I made this course.
Everyone is selling a corner office, a 6-figure business and a jet setter lifestyle. Which are all great.
But none of that happens without you having the confidence to make it happen first!
I'm going to help you see yourself as confident, ask for what you deserve and walk away from what you don't, do what you’ve been trying to convince yourself to do forever and create the career and life you want!
2 months of online confidence coaching and support
7 weekly video modules (with 3 to 5 videos each) to watch whenever you want and keep forever
3 bonus videos released in week 8 (also yours to keep forever)
Downloadable worksheets for each lesson to help you apply everything in a clear, simple way
Access to a private group where you can ask questions and connect with other Visible Confidence participants.
Bi-weekly office hours to call in and get personal, one-on-one coaching.
Weekly check-in emails to keep you on track and remind you we're in this journey together.
Build the confidence that will allow you to meet your other goals!
Your confidence affects EVERYTHING! So let's get started building the one thing that will improve every other area of your life: YOU!
Visible Confidence is for you if...
You already have the courage to dream - because yes, it does take courage - but need the confidence to act.
You know there's another level of success but have felt stuck in trying to get there.
You're unsure why you're not taking action on the things you want to do.
You need to turn off the voices in your head saying you can't do it.
You want the person you show people and the person you are to be the same person.
You need a supportive community that's going to be honest and encouraging along the journey.
You are ready to purposefully and intentionally work on you.
Visible Confidence is not for you if...
You're completely satisfied with where you are in every area of your life right now.
You're the same you in every situation no matter who's around.
You already have a circle around you that is highly qualified and involved in your individual success.
You're not ready to get uncomfortable in order to grow.
I can honestly say that I LOVED it!!!!!!! I am so encouraged right now, lol. You are completely relatable and everyone will want to be best friends with you! The first exercise made me cry. The next one was an amazing way to look at how fear affects our lives. I am totally inspired. I can't wait to suggest this to people when it comes out. Life changing!!!
- Lindsay, Registered Nurse
I just want to say thanks again for this confidence class. It's really helped me a lot as I have been going through it and meditating on it, and I think it's really deep. The questions you asked helped me pull out the root of my issues. I've seen these things not only hurt me but also my husband (and in turn it affects my marriage) because he can see in my lack of appreciating his compliments how much I hate myself. I've definitely got a long way to go, but, with the help of your class, I moving faster in life than anything else I've tried.
- Brittany, Starbucks Barrista
Chase Fear & Beat It Up
Shine From the Inside
Come to Work to Work
Build Your Team
Lesson 0.1 - Your First To-Do
Lesson 1.1 - Fight
Lesson 1.2 - Fearlessness is Fake
Lesson 1.3 - Leverage Your Victory
Lesson 2.1 - One the Surface
Lesson 2.2 - Beauty Role Model, Part 1
Lesson 2.3 - Fight With Evidence
Lesson 2.4 - Go on Offense
Lesson 3.1 - Enough For You
Lesson 3.2 - Sing Out Loud
Lesson 3.3 - Take Kanye's Advice
Lesson 3.4 - Beauty Role Model, Part 2
Lesson 4.1 - The Foundation
Lesson 4.2 - Go to War
Lesson 4.3 - Guilt, Fear, Fatigue
Lesson 4.4 - The Forgotten Ingredient
Lesson 5.1 - Make That Cut
Lesson 5.2 - The Inner Circle
Lesson 5.3 - Expand Your Network
Lesson 6.1 - Partying With Thieves
Lesson 6.2 - Love vs. Compatibility
Lesson 6.3 - Set the Bar
Lesson 6.4 - Sex, Trust & Standards
Lesson 6.5 - Look in the Mirror
Lesson 7.1 - The Why
Lesson 7.2 - The How
Lesson 7.3 - I Am the Greatest
Lesson 7.4 - Footprints of the Past
Lesson 7.5 - Before You Start
When does the course start and finish?
The course launches January 1st. You’ll get access to a new module every week for 8 weeks. So basically I’m going to be your confidence coach and accountability partner for the first 2 months of 2017!
How long do I have access to the course?
You have access to this course for forever! Even when we continue to relaunch with additional content and additional bonuses, you never have to pay again.
What if I’m unhappy with the course?
I would never want you to be unhappy with it and I really hope you’re not. But, if you don’t think it’s your thing, just email us anytime during the first module and we’ll give you a full refund. After module 2 is released, we won’t be able to issue any refunds so make sure you let us know within that first week.
Who is Visible Confidence for?
Visible Confidence is for anyone who feels like they’ve been getting in their own way in any area of their life. It’s also for anyone who’s shy, questions or doubts themselves often, let’s fear stop them, or knows there’s more they could do if they just believed they could. Let’s be honest here. We all have insecurities and we all have dreams, and so we all have confidence issues. Visible Confidence is for anyone who’s willing to admit that and ready to do something about it.
What makes this course different?
This course is different because we’re working on you first. So many people are selling 6-figure paychecks and jetsetter lifestyles. Which are awesome. But no matter how much information we know or tools we have, we’ll never be able to get those things without the confidence to go out and make them happen. We’re going to build you up so you can go get everything else.
How long is this course?
This is totally self-paced. So you’ll get 1 module a week for 8 weeks. But you don’t have to go at that speed. You can go at any pace that’s comfortable for you!
What are the lessons like?
Once you register, you can sign in using your personal login info (just like Facebook). That's where you'll see all your lessons, completed and those left to do. Each module has three to five videos with corresponding worksheets. When you watch the videos, they will cover what you need to know for that lesson and then each worksheet will help you apply it to your own life. I also include my filled out worksheets so you'll see how this course helped me work through my own confidence issues about launching this course. Haha.
Any more questions?
Send me an email about it! Chantelle@CallMeMiss.net
I think every woman, no matter who she is, should take this course!
- Alicia, TallSWAG.com